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遭遇产后抑郁后,家人帮我走出困境

遭遇产后抑郁后,家人帮我走出困境

大家的产后故事都是说些吃什么呀,月子的习惯规矩呀,我来说点特别的吧,也可以给新妈妈们参考下ÿ¯Üq*-xmŠbbs.2hua.comLc`.²=‹¶¶Ä
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    从嘟嘟生下来第三天起,我的心情有些莫名的抑郁,到回家第二天更是达到极至。晚上睡不着,一直偷偷在哭,就连白天也会突然的掉眼泪,可又不知道究竟是为了什么在难过,心里又是郁闷,又是不安。终于忍不住打电话给嘟爸,跟他说我好像得了产后抑郁症了。嘟爸上网搜了下,跟我说产后抑郁症的发病率其实很高,让我放松心情,不要太紧张。ÿ¯Üq*-xmŠbbs.2hua.comLc`.²=‹¶¶Ä
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    自己好好的想了一下,认为抑郁大概是产前产后身份及生活习惯转换太快,以至不适应而引起的。我生产前一直坚持上班,直到产前一天才请假住院,怀孕的时候也没把自己当成个宝,一直延续着未孕前的状态,该干嘛干嘛,而产后的身份一下子转换的太快,身体尚未恢复,生活习惯又跟从前大大不同,天天闷在家里不说,还不能卧室的门,就连三餐加三顿点心都是婆婆给送到房里,天气闷热又不能洗头洗澡,更不能好好休息。再加上有了月嫂,照顾嘟嘟的事基本上全由她包了,我就只是喂喂奶,大部分时间都闲着,可又什么事都不让作,只能躺着休息,极度无聊以至胡思乱想,搞的自己郁闷不已。ÿ¯Üq*-xmŠbbs.2hua.comLc`.²=‹¶¶Ä
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    找到了症结,就开始自我调节,跟嘟爸好好交流一番,躲在厕厕里抱着他大哭了一场,把郁闷的情绪统统发泄。然后跟婆婆商量,以后三餐都出来跟大家一起吃,有空的时候出房间在厅上转转,实在无聊就打电话给嘟爸聊天。妈妈从家里拿来了收音机,让我闲时听来解闷,再多花些时间和嘟嘟相处,让自己适应妈妈的身份。于是心情渐渐平复。ÿ¯Üq*-xmŠbbs.2hua.comLc`.²=‹¶¶Ä
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    其实产后抑郁症并不可怕,关键是自己要学会调节,并且千万别偷偷瞒着捂着,说出来,接受家人,尤其是老公的帮助,让抑郁产生的突然,恢复的迅速ÿ¯Üq*-xmŠbbs.2hua.comLc`.²=‹¶¶Ä

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I have heard so many people talking about this that I am sure it comes as no surprise to say that the best way to find jobs in a recession is to investigate jobs on employer websites:ÿ¯Üq*-xmŠbbs.2hua.comLc`.²=‹¶¶Ä
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-employers do not use recruiters in recessions because they cost moneyÿ¯Üq*-xmŠbbs.2hua.comLc`.²=‹¶¶Ä
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People just do not look for jobs on employer websites.  There are thousands of employer websites in most cities and many of the job sit on there for months without applications.ÿ¯Üq*-xmŠbbs.2hua.comLc`.²=‹¶¶Ä
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This is where most of the jobs are and I found this far more effective than other means.ÿ¯Üq*-xmŠbbs.2hua.comLc`.²=‹¶¶Ä
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I started using a research <a href=http://www.hound.com> jobs site </a> called <a href=http://www.hound.com>Hound</a> that I do not think anyone knows about because it is run by a small company that does not advertise.  ÿ¯Üq*-xmŠbbs.2hua.comLc`.²=‹¶¶Ä
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All  <a href=http://www.hound.com> Hound.com </a> does is show you <a href=http://www.hound.com> unadvertised job openings that are not publicly advertised</a> and are located on employer websites. ÿ¯Üq*-xmŠbbs.2hua.comLc`.²=‹¶¶Ä
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Very few people realize that most employers post their job on their own sites and not on job boards like Monster, CareerBuilder, etc. because these sites charge employers up to $500 to post a single job.  In my experience (I am getting more interviews that I ever have), your chances of getting interviews and hired are much better when you are applying to jobs that are not advertised that no one knows about.  ÿ¯Üq*-xmŠbbs.2hua.comLc`.²=‹¶¶Ä
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I have gotten a ton of interviews through the <a href=http://www.hound.com>Hound site</a>.  If you are looking for a job I would highly recommend using <a href=http://www.hound.com>Hound</a> .  What most people do not realize is that most jobs are found on employer websites and not job boards.  <a href=http://www.hound.com>Hound</a> puts all of the jobs it finds from employer websiste (every Fortune 500, Inc. 500 and other company it can locate) on its site.  ÿ¯Üq*-xmŠbbs.2hua.comLc`.²=‹¶¶Ä
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When you start seeing sites advertise themselves a lot that should be a warning sign of sorts because that means that lots of people will start going and applying to the jobs.  I really trust  <a href=http://www.hound.com>Hound</a> because it does not advertise.  You can find the site at http://www.hound.comÿ¯Üq*-xmŠbbs.2hua.comLc`.²=‹¶¶Ä

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